10 Things I volition never do once again.

Stefan Talley

Stefan Talley

Customer Advocate☆Career Coach☆Workforce Developer☆Public Speaker

Published Sep 22, 2015

When I wait back on life there are a lot of things that I have done that I wonder why I did them to begin with. I accept came up with a list of 10 things that I volition never do in my life over again. Will they be easy, no, will I mess upwardly and struggle with them, yes, but I will strive to stick to my promise.

  1. I will never feel sorry for myself e'er over again. For the longest time I would become very depressed and pitiful well-nigh my life, I took medication at one time and saw a couple of psychologists & psychiatrists for my issues. When I look back on some of my issues I realized that I made them a bigger deal than they should of been. Were there days that I was genuinely frustrated, sad and depressed, yeah, simply I accept learned that I cannot dwell on them also long I have so much to exist grateful for fifty-fifty if I practice not meet it all the time.
  2. I will never arraign anyone or anything on circumstances in my life just considering they practise not get the way that I desire them to. We cannot control everything that happens in our lives but for the about role we are in control of things that happen in our lives. I would blame people and circumstances for things that were my mistake similar my obesity, being poor, my dating state of affairs or the reasons why I never lived by myself.
  3. I volition never become into a discussion on social media nigh divisive topics in particular race, organized religion or politics. I did a couple of times and information technology was a waste of my time, patience and energy. People are going to believe what they do regardless of facts or non. I do not want to change people'southward minds just have a healthy give-and-take whether we disagree or non. Some people are not rational when information technology comes to good for you debate and therefore it is not worth my time to get into an statement nearly it. Does that mean that I have no opinion or thoughts most hot button topics, no of course I do. I just know who to discuss them with and information technology is not everybody on social media.
  4. I will never vote once again as long equally I alive. Information technology amazes me when I tell people that I am never voting again they become offended like I told them that they cannot vote again. It is not that I do not care about issues or that I do not take thoughts well-nigh what is going on in America, I merely practice non believe it matters who is in role and that my vote is worth something. I am not knocking people who do vote and are passionate about it. I have been reading well-nigh wealth building and entrepreneurship, that to me is worth more of my fourth dimension and free energy than who is going to be the next senator of my state or president of my country. One of my best friends has never voted before in an ballot and you know what has happened, he has lived his damn life and so will I.
  5. I will never watch a ridiculous amount of TV ever again. I have been morbidly obese for virtually of my adult life and the main culprit why is because of being a burrow potato. I have probably wasted nigh a quarter of my life watching television. I used to watch 40-60 hours a week in television for many years. When I look back on that it makes me so disgusted that I wasted that much time on something that wasn't that benign to begin with. I am not saying I will never watch Tv ever again, but not a ton of it like I used to. One thing I will practice more is read books and articles on self-development, that is not the easiest thing for me to do just I am working on information technology.
  6. I volition never give up on my goals and dreams just because they are going to accept a long time to accomplish them. "Never surrender on a dream just considering of the time information technology will accept to accomplish it. The time will laissez passer anyhow."-Earl Nightingale. That quote could not exist more than apropos to this 1, success happens over fourth dimension not overnight. I have forgotten that a lot when I want something in life and it has not happened when I wanted it to. The long term will assist me or anybody realize non to become complacent or settle for annihilation less than what they want.
  7. I will never permit anyone think for me always again. Most of my life I have been a follower, gullible, milquetoast and a people pleaser. Those things have fabricated me weak and foolish. I will not just blindly hold with something or someone just because a sure church told me to believe that style or my environment or the color of my skin. Too many people are sheep led to the abattoir, I was one those sheep for a long time simply I chose my own path. I will determine my own path and no i else will for me.
  8. I volition never live in regret ever once again. If there are chances or risks I want to take I will take them whether they work out or not. I cannot exist afraid of the unknown, the only way to observe out is by doing information technology. I had an opportunity about 13 years agone to teach in Japan for reasons I will not get into on here I did not accept the opportunity. Up until a few years ago I have let that decision eat at me and allow information technology bother me. It has taught me to brand the almost of the opportunities that I will get from at present on.
  9. I volition never end laughing in my life. Fifty-fifty in some of the most depressing times in my life I have found ways to express mirth and information technology has been a boost to my ego, and helped me through some rough patches. Laughter has been the best form of medicine for me over the years. There has been scientific studies done on how laughter is not but a stress reliever but information technology is healthy for you too. People have said I laugh sometimes when I shouldn't but it has helped me and I am going to keep doing it.
  10. I volition never dubiety myself always over again. It does not hateful that I volition not have moments of frustration, being unsure or feeling lost. Merely I will keep fighting through those moments and moving forward because I believe in myself and my talents. Am I the virtually talented, skillful person in the world, not past a long shot but I am okay with that. I likewise know what my skills, value and talents are and I am at peace with that.

As you read this article merely sit dorsum and think in your own life things that you recall you should never go once again. Will some be the same as mine, peradventure, they all might be different simply that is your determination to make merely like these 10 are mine.

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